Living lives of “quiet desperation”

Living lives of “quiet desperation”

“The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation”

is a famous quote from Henry David Thoreau’s

1854 book, Walden. It suggests that most people’s

lives are unfulfilling due to conformity,

unnecessary routine and chasing money or

status, rather than true meaning. It reflects a

silent struggle where fear and societal pressures

keep individuals from living authentically, a

sentiment still widely discussed in contexts of

mental health and personal fulfilment. In Dead

Poets Society (1989), actor Robin Williams uses

the quote to urge his students to resist this fate.

At first glance, this outlook may seem an

exaggeration. In contrast, the Psalmist (Psalm

73:2-12) complains about the apparent prosperity

of the wicked: “always at ease, they increase in

riches”, so outwardly their lives are not bleak,

whereas the righteous often experience great

suffering. But in the book of Ecclesiastes (2: 1-11)

the case of Solomon is presented. He sought to

obtain meaning via wealth, luxury, hedonism, sex,

power, extravagant building projects and secular

wisdom. But eventually he came to see the futility

of self-indulgence and materialism. “Then I

considered all that my hands had done and the

toil I had expended in doing it, and behold, all was

vanity and a striving after wind, and there was

nothing to be gained under the sun”.

Despite widespread spiritual blindness, this

realisation is increasingly prevalent in British

society with the shifting ‘tectonic plates’ of global

wars, disasters, political disappointment and

economic gloom. Jesus also talks of the foolish

man “who built his house upon the sand”,

(Matthew 7: 26-27). When the storms of life came,

the sandy foundations were washed away and

the house totally collapsed!

Does life have to be like this?

Alister McGrath, in his recent book: Why we

Believe, reminds us of the insight that we are

‘meaning seeking’ creatures, with a hunger for

transcendence. As Augustine of Hippo wrote in

his spiritual autobiography, Confessions:

“You have made us for yourself, O Lord, and our

hearts are restless until they rest in you”.

Jesus urges us to build our lives on himself as our

Rock. As the great Anglican hymn puts it:

“Christ is made the sure Foundation”.

Moreover, for those who apply to him, Jesus

promised to satisfy our ‘innermost being’.

“Now on the last day, the great day of the feast,

Jesus stood and cried out, saying:

“If any man is thirsty, let him come to Me and

drink. He who believes in Me, as the Scripture

said, ‘From his innermost being shall flow rivers

of living water’”. (John 7: 37-39).

The central purpose of the Christian Church

community is to make Jesus known, and to be a

collective “hospital for sinners” where we can be

ransomed, healed, restored and forgiven through

the salvation achieved by Jesus in his life, death

and resurrection. The outworking of the Christian

life and ministry is a 24/7 task for every member

and leader. This takes us beyond the walls of a

‘church building’ into our homes, workplaces and

communities to share our Lord’s love and life.

John Newton – a former 18thC slave trader –

concludes one of his greatest hymns:

“Fading is the worldling’s pleasure:

all his boasted pomp and show.

Solid joys and lasting treasure,

none but Zion’s children know”.

By David Watts